Dear Friends,
It is with deep sorrow that I share the news of the passing of our beloved priest and friend, Fr. Vince Cotter, who entered eternal life on Tuesday, July 8th at 3:00 PM.
A native of San Francisco, Fr. Vince was shaped by the rich diversity and character of the Bay Area. He discerned a call to priesthood with quiet courage and deep faith, and was ordained in 1993. Shortly thereafter, he began his priestly ministry at St. Ignatius of Antioch, where he would leave an enduring legacy. As pastor, Fr. Vince shepherded the community through a time of significant renewal—revitalizing parish life, deepening the community’s spiritual roots, and overseeing a major remodel of the church. By 1997, under his careful leadership, the parish had installed permanent pews and carpeting that reflected updated diocesan liturgical guidelines and a spirit of reverence and hospitality.
In 2001, he was assigned to St. Philip Neri Church in Alameda, and in the years that followed, Fr. Vince served faithfully in several parishes throughout the Diocese of Oakland. His ministry eventually brought him to Christ the King Church, where he served as Parochial Vicar before retiring early due to health concerns. Even in retirement, Fr. Vince remained a beloved presence in the community. Parishioners often speak of his gentle spirit, his quick wit, and his thoughtful homilies.
Fr. Vince was more than a parish priest—he was a spiritual guide and trusted companion for many. He had a unique gift for walking with others through life’s complexity, offering wisdom, compassion, and quiet encouragement. Whether as a spiritual coach, mentor, or friend, he helped others discover the